No heroics required. But what it does take is conviction.
When we talk about gender equity, many think of quotas, women’s networks, or political demands. But real change only happens together. And that means: men matter. As allies, mentors, enablers. As partners – especially in times when progress is no longer guaranteed.
The tone in public discourse has sharpened. In the U.S., key diversity programs have been dismantled, corporations around the world are following suit, and right-wing parties are gaining ground across Europe. Programs designed to help women enter technical careers are being slashed or shut down. All of this threatens decades of hard-won progress – and makes it clear: equality needs defenders and allies.

Allies in action – What that actually looks like
Being an “ally” sounds big. But it often starts small – with awareness, listening, and everyday gestures. Here’s how men can step up and take part in shaping a more equal future – especially those who want the best for their daughters:
👔 At work:
- Amplify women’s voices: Let women speak without interruptions, repeat their ideas, and credit them.
- Call out inequality: If women are overlooked, talked over, or judged more harshly – don’t stay silent.
- Be a mentor or sponsor: Share your network, recommend women for opportunities, open doors actively.
- Push for representation: Say no to all-male panels. Inclusion starts with the invite list.
🧱 At the structural level:
- Support DEI programs – especially when they’re politically under attack.
- Advocate for transparency: Push for fair pay structures and objective evaluation systems.
- Acknowledge mistakes: Nobody’s perfect. What matters is a willingness to reflect, learn, and grow.
Why now matters more than ever
In times of crisis, equality often gets sidelined as a “nice to have.” But research shows: diverse teams are more innovative, more resilient – and more successful. Equality isn’t a feel-good ideal. It’s a competitive advantage.
📌 A few facts:
- Startups with diverse founding teams grow faster.
- Investment funds with female participation perform more steadily.
- Companies with women in leadership are more profitable (McKinsey).
- Diverse crisis teams during the pandemic proved faster and more creative.
- Inclusive teams build better products – in AI, healthcare, mobility, and beyond.
Male allies aren’t a bonus. They’re part of the solution.
Because meaningful change doesn’t just come from grassroots movements. It also needs those in power to step up, speak out, and make space.
And to all the fathers who want their daughters to grow up in a world of opportunity:
The foundation for that future is built not just at home – but in offices, meetings, and networks.


What happens when equity programs disappear?
- 📉 Less diversity: Fewer women in job pipelines and degree programs.
- 💼 Limited career mobility: Without mentoring and support, women – especially Women of Color – fall behind.
- ❌ Return to old patterns: Companies default to the familiar – usually male-dominated.
- 🧠 Lower innovation: Homogeneous teams are up to 30% less innovative.
- ⛔ More discrimination: Without DEI training, harassment and exclusion rise.

Women in STEM – The numbers
- 🔬 Only 28% of STEM professionals in Germany are women.
- 🔍 Just 22% of AI experts globally are female.
- 📊 In tech leadership, women make up less than 15%.
- 💰 Gender pay gap in STEM: 17–22% lower pay for women.
- 🧪 Half of all women in STEM leave the field within 10 years – often due to lack of support or toxic cultures.
Bottom line: Real change needs real allies
Gender equity isn’t just a women’s issue. It’s a responsibility we all share.
Using your privilege to create space for others isn’t about being perfect – it’s about being present. What it takes is courage, empathy, and the will to step up.

Dagmar Thiam
Dagmar is co-founder and CMO of Belle&Yell. She is a seasoned TV and stage host with over 25 years of international experience, including a background as a sports journalist. An entrepreneur for more than two decades, she holds a diploma in business administration and international marketing. Beyond media and business, Dagmar is also a trained executive coach and non-medical practitioner for psychotherapy. Her diverse expertise makes her a trusted expert in personal and professional empowerment. The mother of two loves sport (former beach volleyball player), a large family, dinner discussions and DIY stores.